I’m starting to realize people really don’t know how to let people evolve.
When I was overweight everybody had advice. People swore they cared about my health. Every conversation turned into “you should lose weight,” “you need to eat better,” “that’s unhealthy.” Cool.
Now that I’m actually doing it… now it’s a problem again 😂
Now I’m “losing too much.”
Now I “look different.”
Now everybody suddenly got a medical degree and a opinion about MY body.
Baby listen… I did not lose weight to fit into nobody standards. I did it because I got tired of feeling drained, uncomfortable, unhealthy, and not like myself. I did it because I wanted better for ME.
People see the weight loss but don’t see the discipline behind it.
They don’t see me getting off 12 hour shifts still trying to walk my miles.
They don’t see me forcing protein in when I don’t even feel like eating sometimes.
They don’t see the consistency.
The sacrifices.
The mental battles.
People only see results and start talking.
And honestly? That’s why I stopped living forpeople. Folks gone switch up every single time you do something different anyway. You can be too big today and too skinny tomorrow in somebody eyes. You’ll drive yourself crazy trying to please people who ain’t never satisfied.
So now I’m focused on peace.
Feeling good.
Looking how I want to look.
Protecting my energy.
And becoming the best version of myself mentally and physically.
This little blog spot gone be real life.
No sugar coating.
No fake perfection.
Just me living, learning and cussing through life 😂💜